A Sunday afternoon at the opera! Another visit to the Broadway Cinema here in Nottingham to see a live stream from the New York Met. This time it was The Marriage of Figaro - a work we have seen so many times that I swear we could act as stand-ins should any of the stars be indisposed! But of course, as with all Mozart, no matter how many times one hears a work or sees an opera each one is different - there are new themes to explore, new "takes" on characters, new interpretations of music and narrative to enjoy - and this performance from the Met was no different; original, inspiring, innovative, exquisite, enriching and hugely enjoyable. And when the final curtain came we, like the rest of the audience, both applauded and sat back breathless and emotionally drained.
Personal perspectives on people, places, passions, and the preoccupations of an eighty something!
28 April, 2025
Trump: A Gross, Uncouth Man of Little Learning With Much to be Modest About: Or, An Afternoon at the Opera!
10 April, 2025
"Kissing My Ass": Tells Us All We Need To Know About Trump & His Supporters
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Is this "class"? Is it "breeding"? How come King Charles speaks Italian to his hosts but the high spot of Trump's stumbling parody of the English language is "Kissing my ass". No, it's neither class or breeding. It's simple respect for the feelings and intellect of one's audience, and respect for other people. At the moment, and sadly, the whole world is Donald Trump's audience and he chooses to address it with expletives and mind numbingly poor use of the English language - the language that Trump recently proclaimed was the national language of America. It's a shame, therefore, that Trump himself (and many of his followers and supporters) are quite incapable of speaking, spelling or writing any kind of acceptable approximation of English. Clearly Trump et al have not come across the concept of irony - and if they have they clearly didn't understand it!
That, however, is a side issue. The central point and give away is that his poor use of language betrays him; it shows him to not only have a limited language facility but also, to put it politely, to be significantly and worryingly intellectually challenged - a frightening diagnosis given the power that this man holds and can wield. It is through language that we think and understand and hIs paucity of linguistic skills shows him to be a man of poor thought and even less understanding - but we all knew that didn't we!
Sadly, half of the electorate of America voted for him and seem not to be bothered by these failings - which says much about them too: little class, low breeding, a total lack of respect for those he and they communicate with, functionally illiterate and of severely limited intellectual powers. That seems to sum up the man and his followers.
King Charles on the other hand..........
29 March, 2025
Leering, Lascivious, & Lecherous; But America Looks the Other Way
Of the many awful things that we have witnessed on TV, read,
or lost sleep about in the continuing nightmare that is Trump's America this,
for me, is one of the most telling. It speaks volumes about the man and his
supporters, and the fact that there has been so little reaction from ordinary,
right thinking, Americans says much about how America has learned to live with
and no longer express outrage at the stuff that is spewing from the mouths of
Trump and his acolytes. In 2016 Hilary Clinton was vilified by supporters of
Trump when she described them as a "basket of deplorables" because of
their misogynistic, racist and morally repugnant policies and beliefs. She was
not wrong then or now, but today, only nine years later and a little more than
2 months into Trump's presidency, America has forgotten her warning and
submissively accepted and normalised evil, no longer registering its crude
vulgarity, lies, extremism and moral vacuity. Now, it is accepted as "just
Trump sounding off". "Let it go", "Move on", “Look the
other way” America whispers - and in so whispering abdicates itself of all
responsibility.
I grew up (as did most of the world) on a diet of Hollywood where the good guy
stands up to be counted and ultimately beats the bad guys; westerns like
"Shane" or "High Noon" or "The Magnificent Seven"
and war films where John Wayne or Audie Murphy or more recently Tom Cruise
single headedly overcame insurmountable odds to ensure that the little good guy
won over the big bad guy. By implication America and Americans were and are a
force for good; that was Hollywood’s message and the raison
d'être of successive American
administrations. In the musical “Miss Saigon” and in a moment of high emotion
ex-Marine Chris says to his wife Ellen “Christ, Ellen, I’m American.....How can I fail to do good?” – and we all knew what he meant; it was what we all
understood of America, part of the evangelical spirit to bring freedom and
goodness to the world.
Of course, we knew it was all fiction, America promoting itself, Hollywood
dreaming and rewriting history. But we didn't mind, it was exciting and
reassuring that the bad guys always lose and America will always stand up for
what is right - in short it was a deeply moralistic message. But today we know
it was all a myth. America now, it seems can no longer police itself and
protect its much vaunted moral high ground, no longer able or wishing to stand
up and be counted, and in so doing keep the bad guys from taking all the prizes
and doing their worst. The best it can do is post its disapproval on Twitter or
Facebook; it has lost its moral compass. It's too easy for Americans to simply
vent their spleen on Trump - he would be nothing without their votes and their
lack of support. Let's be clear, he is in power because America allowed him to
be and Americans did not and do not stand up and be counted when they had to or
have to. Where, in contemporary America, are the John Waynes, the Shanes played
by Alan Ladd who faced down the unscrupulous Rufus Ryker and his henchmen and
fought to the death the evil gunslinger Jack Wilson, where are the Marshal
Kanes played by Gary Cooper in "High Noon" who, on his wedding day,
single handedly fought Frank Miller and his gunslingers? Who now, in
contemporary America, will act and say to Trump and his basket of deplorables
"This shall not be?" As Einstein famously said: "If I were to
remain silent, I'd be guilty of complicity" - and America remains silent
while the bad guys take over.
A couple of days ago Trump spoke at a Women's History Month Event and this clip
shows a little of what he said. It's not the words - if I push myself I can
believe that they were just about acceptable although appropriate is quite
another thing. No, it's the way he said them and the leering expression on his
face, the innuendo, the "dirty old man" self promotion; the
"unspeakable" being hinted at; and behind it all is a lascivious
message of power: "I am a man and I can/will/am able to force myself onto
any woman; that is my role and my right, and it is the role and duty of women
to submit to my will, my lust".
This was Margaret Atwood's "The Handmaid's Tale" made real; the
Republic of Gilead alive and well in the Oval Office, and it is a frightening
measure of contemporary America that few seem to think this is not totally
unacceptable from any man let alone the nation's elected leader. Trump promised
to make America great again - that frightening project still under construction
and may, or may not, materialise - but what he undoubtedly has succeeded in
doing is creating a nation of the cowed and the quiet, unable or unwilling to
stand up for what is right . Hardly the stuff of greatness.
21 March, 2025
Empathy: What Separates Us From the Animals; or "Ballet Trumps Trump".
And, following this line of thought I mused on something else. The performance was in London, I was watching in Nottingham. Juliet was performed by a dancer born and raised in Japan and Romeo a Russian born and raised in a city in the depths of that vast country. The orchestra was conducted by Koen Kessels - a Belgian and the ballet choreographed by Sir Kenneth Macmillan – a Scot. The musical score was composed by another Russian Sergey Prokofiev – and of course the whole thing was based upon the words of an Englishman, William Shakespeare. We are, indeed, all interlinked and intertwined across world – all reliant upon everyone else’s talents, ideas, skills, resources, aspirations, dream, hopes and fears. There are words for this: “mankind” or “humanity”. We are all part of humanity whether we like it or not; and as humans, all of us who enjoyed last night’s performance – wherever we were – recognised and understood and related to the very human emotions and events that were set out before us precisely because we are human – it’s called “empathy” - it's one of the attributes that separates us from the animal kingdom.
So, as I reversed the car onto our drive late last night the inhuman, divisive, hateful racist and ethnic rhetoric that we have heard from the American President and his henchmen in recent weeks seemed even more unacceptable. The awful dismissal of empathy as a valid human emotion by Elon Musk a week or two ago says far more about him and his crippled perverted view of humanity than it does about empathy. Musk's comment that "Empathy is the fundamental weakness of western civilisation" not only displays his ignorance of a basic human instinct, it calls in to question his understanding of people and the defining qualities in a "civilisation". But Musk is not alone. Equally depressing and damning is the ill considered, vulgar, crude and violent outbursts from the mindless supporters of these would be tyrants. The actions, too, of alleged “strong men” like Benjamin Netanyahu and Vladimir Putin (no they’re not "strongmen", they are childish thugs who have mistakenly been given, by their mindless supporters, expensive and dangerous toys to play their perverted games with) and their inhumane bombing into oblivion of innocents becomes to me even more of a crime against humanity.
Romeo and Juliet is a story about love being thwarted and it becomes a tragedy. It seems to me that in this hate filled world we need to ensure love and togetherness are victorious. The alternative as we see daily on our TV screens and in our newspapers doesn’t bear thinking about. It's commonly said - and I believe to be true - that Shakespeare's works encompass all it is to be human - all mankind's dreams, failings, misdeeds and triumphs can be found in the Bard's works. Last night's ballet of his mighty tale took that one stage further and brought a beauty and magic to it all - and in doing so showed up the horror of what is happening and being promoted by so many in our modern world.
20 March, 2025
"ADOLESCENCE" - A Story For Our Times
Sadly, although Dickens, Steinbeck, Owen and Rushdie and the rest have produced numerous books and poems to awaken us to mankind’s discontents and failings TV and films do so only rarely – but when they do, they can be both life affirming and life changing in a way that perhaps books and poems can never be.

And so to the latest – and for me the most compelling and worrying. A story for our times. “Adolescence”, a series produced by Netflix is harrowing in the extreme, desperately worrying and above all important. [‘The younger me would have sat up and nodded’: Adolescence writer Jack Thorne on the insidious appeal of incel culture | Television | The Guardian ] The story of teenage boy, Jamie, accused of murdering Katie, a teenage girl, it tracks Jamie's arrest, the police investigation, the work of psychiatrists and the disintegration of a family. It pulls no punches but has a grim inevitable everyday reality about it that we can all recognise and in doing so dread. We can feel for all the characters, and we can fear for them because underpinning and running through it is a message, both overt and covert – "This is us, this is you, your family, this is your son, this is your daughter now – today, in the 21st century"; it holds a mirror up to contemporary Britain. It made my wife and I shiver and wipe tears from our eyes. After each episode we were in bits, silent, embarrassed to say what we felt and to feel what we wanted to say - as we thought of our own children and grandchildren and the “underworld” of teenage social media. Snapchat, Instagram, YouTube and the rest, filled with twisted "Internet Influencers" backed up by the sordid and faux philosophies of pseudo/self proclaimed intellectuals like Jordan Peterson spewing their perverted messages and regurgitating ill informed fake facts and hate; perniciously eating into the lives, thoughts and actions of our young people. We learned about the world of the insidious and mind corrupting Incel culture, of Andrew Tate and his evil messages. And we were afraid; finding it impossible to get the words, images and messages out of our minds as we lay in bed at night after each episode, looking at the ceiling in the dark. The series is grim, hard hitting, a desperate watch - but never sensational – and that is its power: it reflects back at us, our children and our society, forcing us to acknowledge what we knew was there all the time but refused to accept, believing that it could not happen to us, to our family, to our children……. except, except......it could.
In the final episode the sobbing, well meaning, frightened and regret filled parents cling to each other, as we all would to gain some respite, consolation or virtue from the horror that they find themselves in, “We did our best….we were not bad parents,…..you can’t watch your kids all the time can you……?” they sobbed. And it’s true – but that doesn’t alter the reality of what is. In days past when a child misbehaved he or she might have been stood on the “naughty step” or sent to his/her bedroom where they can calm down, think about their actions in solitude and perhaps regret. We like to think that we are being good, enlightened parents by giving our children responsibility and independence - be grown up and go with their mates into town, have a room of their own where they can "chill", listen to their awful music and do their homework in a quiet, secure and safe atmosphere - but we were wrong. Our well meaning and, enlightened actions were and are false Gods. The secure welcoming bedroom just right for chilling, the naughty step, the lounge, the street, school, or the school bus are not, in 2025, private and secure, nor are they now safe. Creeping, insidious technology is always there, intruding, always available, ever with them; in their pocket ready at the flick of a finger on the touch screen to open up different and dangerous worlds with worryingly, frighteningly different values, vocabularies, and ideologies; threats to young immature minds. As I sit writing this it is late afternoon and passing my office window in our quiet little road the village's teenagers are walking past my window on their way home from the school bus. These are “good kids” from “good families” and every one (yes I mean every one) is walking gazing into their mobile phones furiously texting, perhaps soaking up – or sending - the bile, the misogyny, the racist comments and the emojis prevalent on Snapchat, Instagram and the rest. Emojis, not as I previously thought, fun childish things, little innocent cartoons to brighten a text message but each one in the sub culture inhabited by many on Snapchat and Instagram carrying a subtle but clear and frightening meaning, a pernicious and demeaning message, to worm its way into the subconscious of its immature and pliable recipient.
We cannot turn the clock back, we cannot unsee what is here. The world of mobiles, laptops, tablets, social media, fake news, AI, and the rest is today’s reality; they cannot be undone. But within them there is another reality potentially making all of our young people victims. Katie, the girl murdered in the play was a victim but so, too, was the murderer – and by association his and her families - his mind, reason and virtue (what a quaint and twee word that sounds in this harsh, modern age!) twisted by the hidden sub culture of the cyberworld made possible by the Elon Musks and Mark Zuckerbergs of this world and driven by Andrew Tate and Hamza Ahmed and other high priests of the smartphone and YouTube "Manosphere", all pushing their divisive and dangerous agendas and hate filled ideologies: envy, rage, violence, misogyny, fear, retribution, lies, and evil dysfunction to their millions of young followers. And all largely hidden from parents, teachers and other responsible adults. We cannot change the world that we have built but as adults we have the responsibility to ensure that the young do not fall prey to it. Jamie’s father so agonisingly sobbed “We can't watch our kids all the time, can we?” but as adults we have a greater imperative – to take care of our children and young people no matter what. But taking care of our children to ensure only their physical safety is not enough. As this series illustrates so tragically we must, too, ensure their emotional and mental well being - their virtue; none of us want our children to turn out to become emotionally crippled monsters with no awareness of basic humanities like empathy, sympathy and simple goodness. Anything less is a dereliction of our duty as adults.
The other important plays that I mentioned at the top of this post – “Cathy Come Home”, “Boys From the Blackstuff” etc. were vital in raising society's awareness and in changing attitudes. But for most of us they were removed from our worlds. I watched “Cathy” and was angry, upset. But it wasn’t my world, I had a good job and nice house – "Not me" I breathed as I watched. I followed Yosser Hughes and the unemployed tarmac layers in 1980s Liverpool and ranted and wrote letters to The Guardian newspaper haranguing Thatcher and her evil policies. But, again, it wasn’t me or my family - it was somebody else, somewhere else. I watched the Post Office scandal and was delighted when it had such an impact. But then, I had never been falsely accused of theft - it was interesting, worrying even, but removed.
“Adolescence” is different – it’s about us, about the way in which technology is impacting upon all our lives and in the case of young people their vulnerabilities. If you haven’t watched “Adolescence” then you should. You might not have children, you might (and you would be completely wrong) think “My kids aren’t like this”. You might not use social media but whether you like it or not, use it or not, social media now frames and in many respects forms our world; it's a play for our troubled times. It's a hard watch because it spells out in big bold letters the world we are living in; to coin Wilfred Owen's phrase, it "tells the truth" and, sadly, the truth, when we are in denial or unaware is tough to accept and acknowledge - and that is why it's so powerful and important.




