"If music be the food of love, play on" says the Duke of Orsino in the opening words to Shakespeare's great romantic comedy Twelfth Night as he pines for the love of the Lady Olivia and I was reminded of those few words last night when, as I do most Monday nights, I sat alone in our lounge listening to my favourite music. Autumn is upon us and my lovely wife, Patricia, has returned to her weekly choir practice after the summer break and her recent recovery from gallstone surgery; we are very slowly getting back to our little routines. Each Monday night throughout the year as Patricia goes to practice for the Ruddington & District Choral Society's next concert I am alone with my book, my Guardian or Telegraph crossword and my music.
Home Thoughts
Personal perspectives on people, places, passions, and the preoccupations of an eighty something!
06 October, 2026
"If music be the food of love, play on......"
05 October, 2026
A rich heritage, and all on our doorstep.
A beautiful late Summer/early Autumn Saturday morning in England's East Midlands. Our area of the country is perhaps not as famous as many parts of the UK - we don't have London's glamour or glitz or wealth, or Oxford's "dreaming spires" or Cambridge's great and ancient seats of learning. We don't have the dramatic beauty of the Lake District or Scotland's Highlands or the gentle beauty of Kent - the "Garden of England" - or Devon and Cornwall's majestic coastlines. We can't claim to have the fame of Liverpool with its many famous sons and daughters or Manchester or Newcastle with their mighty links to the industrial revolution and the industrial might of the nation's history. Nor can we claim to have rugged beauty of Wales' Snowdonia or the deep cultural heartland that goes with the Male Voice Choirs of the Welsh valleys.
29 September, 2026
"Tales of a new Jerusalem"
Reading my Guardian newspaper yesterday evening my heart suddenly leapt, my spirits rose! Not because of the news which becomes more worrying and depressing by the day both here in the UK and further afield but because the Guardian ran a book review of a new publication which leapt off the page at me. I immediately jotted down the title in my diary - the book will be on my my Christmas present list when I write to Santa - and if Santa is kind its 700 plus pages will keep me engaged and enthralled in the dark days of January!
The reviews for Kynaston's latest volume David Kynaston are universally glowing:"No living historian is as comprehensive . . . full of humour and never dull . . ." says The Guardian, who make it their book of the year. "Remarkable . . . A sequence of colossally researched, witty, well-crafted, fun-loving and quietly impassioned social histories . . . Kynaston's books are little (or rather, large) miracles of research, oozing with primary sources" says The Times. "Many of the most celebrated moments in 'the Sixties' are here present . . . Wonderfully interesting and enjoyable . . . An unforeseen magic is creeping over the sequence as it progresses . . . Most books I get sent to review get dispatched to the charity shop quite quickly; these books of Kynaston's have remained on a much-cherished shelf " writes Philip Hensher in The Spectator. And The Literary Review is equally effusive, saying: "The sixth volume in David Kynaston's history of postwar Britain covers the eighteen months between the death of Winston Churchill and England's victory over Germany in the World Cup . . . Indeed, there was already hope in the air - what Kynaston describes as a palpable sense that possibilities were opening up . . . On the other hand - and this is the burden of Kynaston's story - continuity was probably more marked than change . . . The daemon of Kynaston's saga is in the detail. It is animated by minutiae, thumbnail sketches, arcane vignettes, evanescent slices of life . . . A magnificent series". Clearly this coming publication is something to look forward to!
22 September, 2026
"A nation of such barbarous temper & mountainish inhumanity"
This week in Gosport in Hampshire - a town with long and proud associations with England's maritime history - crowds including men their faces hidden by black balaclavas as well as children, some still in their school uniform, gathered to demonstrate against the arrival of a group of asylum seekers having been picked up in the English Channel. Chillingly, the chants of “let them drown” were led by a child on a megaphone. This is England in 2026; a place where right wing politicians, rabble rousers, social media extremists and now children can, and do, propose policies and actions that only a few years ago would have been howled down by the general public whatever their political viewpoint or standing. Hatred, resentment, and discontent underpinned by the hint or even threat of violent action are now the default setting of many; one only needs to read posts on social media to witness the truth of that. And all too often this is wrapped up in the cloak of flag waving "patriotism"; a phrase and word that has within it the idea that to be a "patriot" you have to subscribe to that hatred and resentment. Flag waving and "patriotism" rallies "us" around the flag, its intention to bring people of a like mind or background together - be they soldiers in battle or the crowd at a football match or the mob on the street. But in doing so they also separate "us" from "them" - the "others" not of our mind, background, creed or colour be they the enemy on the battle field with their own flag or the supporters of the opposition's team or those on the streets who are not one of "us". In short, it makes manifest the notion that you are either "with us or against us"; there are no grey areas with room for discussion or compromise; it is the deliberate removal of nuance. And in a world where grey areas of compromise and disagreement, nuance, difference of opinion, and other values are absent or removed there lie the seeds of tyranny. The world, and England in particular, are in my view, at a tipping point; increasingly it seems to me battle lines are being drawn, positions taken, threats becoming a reality.
And now, in recent days we have had an event that could only be described as peculiarly English; a tiny village, Piddington, deep in the rich (economically and agriculturally) Oxfordshire countryside has declared itself "independent" from the UK in order to highlight and prevent the planned use of a local Ministry of Defence site to house over a thousand male asylum seekers who are awaiting the processing of their claims for asylum in this country. The site was previously part of the Bicester garrison housing, amongst other things, military personnel. The BBC told us: "Residents of an Oxfordshire village have voted to become independent from the UK in a symbolic referendum held in protest at plans to house more than 1,000 migrants at a former military base. Villagers in Piddington, near Bicester, voted on Tuesday over Home Office proposals to house up to 1,256 male asylum seekers at nearby MoD Bicester. The referendum was organised by the parish council and out of 312 votes cast, 285 voted to leave, 26 voted no, and one ballot paper was spoiled. Delivering the result, parish council vice chair Susannah Parden said: "We are Piddington the village that roars." Parish council chair Tim McNally added: "This is an example of democracy in operation. We went into this village hall as the underdogs - we had a plucky idea. We have given a message to the world."
to watch the great Shakespearean actor Sir Ian McKellen recite these lines; if you have any sense of decency and justice, and empathetic genes in your body, you will find your heart racing and perhaps the hairs on your neck standing upright.
19 September, 2026
Words to sustain me through tough times......
In our 2026 world, a world beset with problems and issues that seem overwhelming and perhaps unsolvable it is easy to become disheartened and fearful - I know, because I am increasingly so. Whatever newspaper you read or whatever your core beliefs or principles, whether you are "left" or "right" in your politics, whether you are man or woman, old or young, gay or straight, or whatever your colour or creed the world's problems might appear intractable - and getting worse; in short, the four horsemen of the apocalypse seem to be riding roughshod over us. An escalating climate crisis threatens to end all life on earth; the unstoppable development of AI has the potential to harm civilisation in ways we are yet to understand; war, promoted and sustained by powerful amoral demagogues in Washington, Moscow and Jerusalem all driven by animus and the desire for power and riches has now become almost the new normal; hate rhetoric, prejudice, discrimination and inequality are now endemic in society, in the national press, on social media and fall from the lips of politicians of once great nations who should know better. Looking for good news, it now seems to me is an increasingly fruitless activity.
In short, they were (and are) one of the great families of England, inextricably linked with the nation's history. Two of my treasured and well thumbed books that sit here in my office are written by their grandson Adam Nicolson who was born and raised at Sissinghurst: "When God Spoke English" tells the tale of the writing of the King James Bible and "The Mighty Dead" is a magical journey of discovery about the ancient world of Homer. They are both books that should be read if one is to understand both English history and have a context for the ancient world.
Vita, although born to wealth and privilege, had a life filled with many personal sorrows and regrets: even those born with a "silver spoon in their mouth" are not free from the basic fears, failings and facts of life that we of lesser stature are; we are all human and to be human is to live with failings, loss, missed opportunities and regret. "Life is just a bowl of cherries" sang Julie Garland seventy years ago - she was wrong; it has its ups and downs, its joys and its sadnesses and Vita Sackville-West, like the rest of us knew that through her own experiences of life. So what did Vita's life experiences tell her and us and why is it on my lap top each morning when I log on. Vita said: "Small pleasures must correct great tragedies". She was not wrong; amid the distress, the sorrows, the fears, the disappointments and the chaos of what is often everyday life it is to the small pleasures, the small acts of kindness, the small attainable goals, the small glimpses that things will get better, the unconditional love and the heart warming smile that keep us grounded, stable, upright, hopeful, afloat, in the face of the storms that life throws at us. And what did her loving husband Harold say? Harold, ever the realist in the face of Vita's often extravagant and sometimes wayward life style, was perhaps more prosaic, based in the world as it is not as he might want it to be. He sagely tells me each morning as my lap top lights up: "The great secret of a successful life and marriage is to treat all disasters as incidents and none of the incidents as disasters". Good advice, I think, for all of us, be we humble or high.














